Why Everything You’ve Tried Has Failed (And What Actually Works in 2025 )

Therapy, Coaching, Energy Work—Here’s Why They Don’t Deliver and the Revolutionary Approach That Finally Does

The Pain of Trying and Failing (Again and Again)

You know the feeling. That gnawing frustration that comes from trying everything—therapy, coaching, meditation retreats, manifestation programs—and still finding yourself stuck in the same patterns. You’ve read the books, listened to the podcasts, attended the workshops. You’ve poured your time, money, and energy into solutions that promised transformation but delivered little more than fleeting hope.

And now? You’re tired. Tired of the endless cycle of effort and disappointment. Tired of believing change is possible only to be let down again. Maybe you’ve even stopped trying altogether because deep down, you no longer believe anything will work.

If this resonates with you, it’s not your fault. The truth is, the systems you’ve been relying on are flawed—not because they’re entirely useless but because they’re incomplete. They’ve been giving you pieces of the puzzle while ignoring the bigger picture of what it takes to create real, lasting change.

But here’s the good news: It’s not you that’s broken—it’s the methods. And for the first time in history, we now have a complete framework that works because it addresses all the levels where change happens: your subconscious identity, your emotional wiring, and your physical reality.

Why Therapy Doesn’t Work

Therapy is often the first stop for people seeking change—and for good reason. It offers a safe space to process emotions and gain insight into your past. But here’s where it falls short:

1. It focuses on awareness, not transformation.
   Therapy helps you understand why you are the way you are, but understanding alone doesn’t rewrite the subconscious stories driving your behavior. It’s like being told you have a flat tire but not being given a jack or spare to fix it.

2. It keeps you stuck in analysis paralysis.
   While therapy can illuminate your wounds, it often leaves you circling them without providing tools to move forward. Emotional processing without action can feel like running on a treadmill—you’re working hard but not getting anywhere.

3. It doesn’t address identity-level change.
   Your behaviors flow from who you believe you are at your core. Therapy rarely goes deep enough to reprogram these core beliefs, leaving you stuck in old patterns despite your best intentions.

** An important note here: while older therapy methods still dominate, therapy is undergoing a bit of an awakening and many therapist are embracing cutting edge techniques that excel where older models fell short. Seek out therapists schooled in techniques like (CFT, IFS, EMDR PACT and others)

Why Coaching Doesn’t Work

Coaching promises results through action-oriented strategies—goal setting, habit building, accountability—but it often misunderstands how human transformation actually works:

1. It focuses on behavior instead of identity.
   Coaching assumes that if you change your habits, you’ll change your life. But habits are surface-level expressions of deeper subconscious beliefs. Without addressing those beliefs, any changes are temporary at best.

2. It triggers motivational burnout.
   The brain’s habenula acts as a “failure sensor,” shutting down motivation when repeated attempts don’t yield results (Smith et al., 2023). Coaching frameworks that rely on willpower and discipline often backfire by reinforcing feelings of failure.

3. It ignores emotional wiring and subconscious programming.
   Coaching operates in the realm of conscious thought—what you know—but real change happens in the subconscious mind where your deepest stories and emotional patterns reside.

Why Energy Work Doesn’t Work

Energy work—whether through meditation retreats, plant medicine ceremonies, or manifestation programs—offers profound insights into the subconscious mind but often fails to translate these insights into actionable change:

1. It lacks integration into daily life.
   Energy work can reveal powerful truths about your patterns and potential, but without practical tools for integration, these breakthroughs remain abstract and fleeting.

2. It overlooks physical reality.
   Manifestation programs often promise that thoughts and feelings alone can create change while ignoring the fact that we live in a 3D world where action is required.

3. It doesn’t address identity rewiring or emotional retraining.
   While energy work excels at accessing subconscious layers, it rarely provides a structured process for rewriting core beliefs or retraining emotional pathways.

The Real Reason These Methods Fail: They’re Incomplete

Each of these approaches—therapy, coaching, energy work—addresses one piece of the puzzle but ignores others:

• Therapy focuses on understanding but stops short of rewiring identity or retraining behavior.

• Coaching emphasizes action but neglects subconscious programming.

• Energy work accesses deep insights but fails to integrate them into real-world practices.

The result? You end up spinning your wheels in frustration because no single method addresses all levels of transformation: mental (beliefs), emotional (patterns), and physical (actions).

What’s Different Now: The Next Level Human Approach

For decades, we didn’t have the tools to fully understand or address human transformation at all levels—but that has changed in recent years thanks to groundbreaking advancements in neuroscience, trauma research, and energy science:

• Neuroscience breakthroughs: We now understand how brain structures like the habenula regulate motivation and how neuroplasticity allows us to rewire emotional pathways (Holmes et al., 2009).

• Trauma-informed therapies: Research shows how trauma hardwires dysfunctional patterns into our physiology—and how specific techniques like breathwork and visualization can reverse these effects (Suarez-Jimenez et al., 2022).

• Energy science: Emerging studies reveal how our biofield interacts with light, vibration, and water dynamics to influence physical and emotional health (Ceruto et al., 2024).

The Next Level Human system integrates these discoveries into a comprehensive framework for transformation that works because it addresses all levels simultaneously.

How It Works: Rewrite, Rewire, Retrain

1. Rewrite Your Subconscious Stories
   Using guided narrative therapy and visualization techniques, we help you identify and rewrite the Misguided Unconscious Decisions (MUD) driving your behavior.

2. Rewire Your Emotional Pathways
   Through breath-enhanced emotional processing (BEEP) and somatic practices, we dissolve unconscious programing and activate neuroplastic mechanisms to dissolve old emotional patterns tied to, safety, belonging, fear or shame.

3. Retrain Your Brain-Body Connection
   By integrating new beliefs into daily actions through experiential challenges and habit recalibration, we ensure transformation isn’t just theoretical—it becomes embodied.

Why 2025 Is Different: The Perfect Convergence of Science and Strategy

This approach couldn’t have existed until now because it relies on a perfect storm of advancements:

• Neuroscience has revealed how motivation works at a biological level.

• Trauma research has shown us how to access, release and heal deep-seated patterns.

• Energy science has illuminated how our biofield influences and links our spiritual, psychological and physical realities.

• Coaching psychology has taught us how to translate insights into action.

• New tools have allowed us to penetrate the defenses of ego and restructure identity. We can now dissolve health blocks, allow loving relationships and release money mindsets that hold back abundance.

Together, these breakthroughs form a complete system for transformation—one that finally delivers on the promise of lasting change.

Your Invitation to Break Free

If you’re ready to stop spinning your wheels with methods that only scratch the surface… If you’re ready to experience transformation at every level—mental, emotional, physical… If you’re ready to become one of the first pioneers of this revolutionary approach… Then it’s time to take action.

We’re offering a limited number of spots for individuals committed to real change in 2025 through Next Level Human Coaching—a system designed not just to help you see what’s holding you back but to completely rewrite it so you can move forward with clarity and purpose.

Schedule a call today to learn more about this life-changing program.

Email: support@nextlevelhuman.com and put “I need coaching” in the subject line

Final Thoughts: The Year You Finally Break Free

2025 isn’t just another year—it’s your year. The year you stop settling for incremental progress and start experiencing exponential growth. The year you rewrite your story from one of struggle to one of triumph.

Don’t let another year pass by without stepping into your full potential.

Here’s to your Next Level— Jade