The 3 Life-Changing Questions That Unlock Your Full Potential
Who Am I? Why Am I Here? What Should I Do? The Ancient Framework That Can Transform Your Life and Impact the World.
What if I told you that the key to unlocking your full potential—the kind of growth and success that not only changes your life but leaves a lasting impact on the world—hinges on answering just three questions? These questions are ancient, but they remain as relevant today as they were thousands of years ago.
We’ve all asked them, either consciously or unconsciously:
Who am I?
Why am I here?
What should I do?
These aren’t just random questions—they form the foundation of human existence. The problem is, most people never answer them in a way that empowers them. The Next Level Human philosophy is designed to do just that: help you answer these questions in a way that not only fuels your personal growth but also allows you to make a profound impact on the world.
Let’s get into it.
Question 1: Who Am I? — An Extension of Universal Consciousness
Let’s start with the biggest question of them all: Who am I?
The answer is simple yet profound: You are an extension of universal consciousness.
This means you are not just a random collection of cells, memories, and experiences. You are a unique spiritual fingerprint, a one-of-a-kind expression of something greater. Whether you think of this as being a “child of God” or a “manifestation of nature,” the truth is the same—you are part of something vast and powerful. But here’s where it gets interesting: No two humans are exactly alike. Even identical twins are different in subtle ways. This uniqueness is your power, your essence.
But realizing this fully requires you to contend with authenticity. And here’s where most people get tripped up.
Authenticity isn’t about being true to your past self—the person you were at 18, for example. Nor is it about being dogmatically attached to your current self. True authenticity means being true to your Next Level Human self—the future you, the better you, the version of yourself you are destined to become.
Think of authenticity like a river. If it stays stagnant, it gets polluted. But if it flows, constantly moving, it stays fresh and vital. To truly answer “Who am I?” you must allow yourself to evolve, to become who you are meant to be. This is why the Next Level Human framework encourages you to embrace growth and reject the notion that who you are today is who you are destined to be forever.
Question 2: Why Am I Here? — To Learn, Teach, and Love
The second question is the one we all struggle with: Why am I here?
The answer: You are here to learn, teach, and love.
But not love in the way most people think. This isn’t just about romance or family—it’s about creation. In fact, the phrase I use is relinquum amor, meaning “leave your love.” You leave your love through your creations—your work, your relationships, and the impact you leave on the world. Every interaction, every lesson you learn, every person you teach contributes to this larger purpose.
But to truly live this out, you have to battle with duality.
Duality is the tendency to see the world in black and white. Success or failure. Good or bad. Right or wrong. This kind of thinking limits your ability to truly learn. Why? Because real growth happens in the gray areas—in the complexities of life where lessons aren’t clear-cut and wisdom isn’t binary.
To live your purpose of learning, teaching, and loving, you must free yourself from the prison of dualistic thinking. The world isn’t just A or B—there’s a whole spectrum of possibilities in between. As long as you’re stuck in a binary mindset, you’re trapped in ignorance and arrogance, which blocks growth. When you move into a non-dual state, you unlock the potential for infinite learning and growth. You start to see the world not as a place of opposition, but as a place of endless opportunity.
Question 3: What Should I Do? — Your Unique Purpose
Finally, we come to the third question: What should I do?
The answer here is deeply personal, but powerful: You are here to live your unique purpose—the one thing you are specifically designed to do in the way only you can do it.
Here’s the thing: Most people confuse their “job” with their “work.” Your job is how you make money, but your work is how you make a difference. It’s how you leave your love, how you imprint your essence on the world. To truly step into your Next Level Human self, you must stop obsessing over your job title and start focusing on your work—your real purpose.
But to do this, you have to let go of attachment.
Attachment to a specific outcome can be your greatest enemy. It’s the trap that convinces you that things have to turn out a certain way, or else you’ve failed. But here’s the truth: Purpose is fluid. It’s a journey, not a destination. You might think you’re destined to be a pop star, but what if your real gift is coaching others to find their voice? What if your work isn’t what you imagined, but something even more fulfilling?
I had a client who was dead-set on becoming a famous singer. Her passion for music was undeniable, but she just didn’t have the voice for it. Instead of clinging to that one vision, she embraced her talent for coaching others—and now, she’s living her purpose in a way she never imagined. This is the essence of co-creation—working with the universe, not against it.
Your purpose doesn’t have to look the way you originally envisioned it. In fact, it shouldn’t. The future you imagine should always be reimagined, adapted, and refined as you grow. This is how you live out your true work.
The Next Level Human Answer: Embrace Authenticity, Move Beyond Duality, and Release Attachment
At the heart of the Next Level Human philosophy is the understanding that these three questions—Who am I?, Why am I here?, and What should I do?—are intertwined. The answers are not static, and they require you to confront key challenges:
Authenticity: Stop clinging to your past or current self. Be true to the future, better you.
Duality: Break free from black-and-white thinking and embrace the complexity of life’s lessons.
Attachment: Let go of rigid expectations and allow your purpose to evolve in ways you can’t predict.
When you answer these questions from a place of growth and expansion, you unlock the potential for a life that not only fulfills you but also leaves a lasting impact on the world.
Final Thoughts: Are You Ready to Step into Your Next Level Human Potential?
These three questions have been asked for millennia, but few people truly answer them in a way that leads to growth and transformation. The Next Level Human philosophy gives you the tools to answer them—not just intellectually, but practically. This is about more than just thinking differently—it’s about becoming different.
Answering these questions will not only clarify your purpose but also help you live it out in a way that makes a real difference.
So, are you ready to stop asking and start answering?
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